[[Marriage & Family Therapy]] Developed by Ivan Boszormenyi-Nagy **Rooted in Psychoanalysis** - This model grew out of Freud’s psychoanalytic ideas and later developments like object relations theory. **Object Relations Focus** - People are driven by a need to connect and form relationships. - Our inner world (the _psyche_) is shaped by early relationships—especially with important figures ("objects") from infancy. - The therapy focuses on uncovering emotional and relational patterns that started in early childhood. **Intergenerational Approach** - Looks at how emotional and relationship patterns are passed down through generations. - These long-term patterns influence how family members relate to each other in the present. **Relational Ledger (Entitlement & Indebtedness)** People keep a mental record—often unconsciously—of what they’ve given to others and what they’ve received in return. This sense of _fairness_ shapes relationships. **Social Context Matters** Power differences, oppression, and social inequalities impact how fair relationships feel and how emotional debts build up. **Relational Ethics** This therapy focuses on the ethical side of relationships—things like: - Caring and loyalty - Guilt and forgiveness - Legacy and accountability - Trust and fairness across generations **Therapist's Role** The therapist doesn’t “take sides.” Instead, they align with different family members at different times to help everyone feel heard and work toward restoring balance in relationships.